Women were told to be endlessly understanding. Now nobody’s okay.*

Here’s the pattern we keep seeing, everywhere we go:

Men are lonely in ways that feel dangerous to admit.
Women are lonely in ways they’re tired of explaining.

Men often withdraw because they think they’re failing. Women interpret the withdrawal as not caring. Men assume they’ll disappoint someone. Women assume they’re being abandoned.

Nobody’s actually wrong — but everyone is exhausted. The divide isn’t moral. It’s educational.

Women got emotional practice. Men got emotional prohibition. And now we’re all dating across that gap like it’s not the size of a small canyon.

Emotionally, yes. But also physically.

You can’t be emotionally present when you’re taught to ignore half your internal experience. You can’t build connection from depletion. You can’t “lead” in love when your baseline is survival mode.

Men aren’t detached — they’re under-resourced. Not just in their relationships, but in their own bodies.

Which brings us to something important. If we’re serious about helping men show up better — for their partners, for dating, for themselves — we also have to talk about the part of men’s wellness that’s still treated like a punchline.

So here’s the truth: Prostate wellness is foundational to men’s long-term pleasure, comfort, and health. You can’t separate emotional wellbeing from physical wellbeing. They are the same ecosystem.

And that’s why we’re partnering with MV.Health this week.

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Prostate wellness isn’t taboo. It’s self-care. It’s adulthood. Men deserve a relationship to their bodies that isn’t shame-based, avoidant, or purely functional. They deserve pleasure that’s informed, not improvised. They deserve wellness that goes beyond “I’m fine.”

Women aren’t asking men to be perfect. They’re asking them to be present. To treat their emotional and physical wellbeing like something that matters. To have needs — and not hide them under a shrug and a “whatever you want.”

Because the men who can name what they feel…The men who take care of their bodies…The men who let themselves be supported…Those are the men who build relationships that don’t collapse under silence.

Those are the men people can meet — and stay with.

If dating is going to get better — for everyone — it starts with men being allowed to know themselves. Not the masked version. Not the stoic version. Not the crisis-only, last-resort version.

The whole version. With needs, care, softness, strength, fear, desire, anger, pleasure, confusion, and hope.

We’re not asking men to be different. We’re asking them to be allowed. And that alone would change everything.

We’re rooting for you.

xoxo,
Team Necterine